30th ANNIVERSARY TRIP
MORRO BAY, CALIFORNIA
JUNE 2010

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If possible, whenever my wedding anniversary rolls around, I like to arrange for Sue and I to get away for a few days. With all the distractions of housework, yard work, cooking, and laundry, not to mention helping me with my job, it's tough for Sue to find the time to reflect on how lucky she is to be married to me.

This year marks our 34th as man (that's me) and wife. Our marriage is at that awkward age; We've already had our silver anniversary, but have a way to go for our golden anniversary. I wanted to see what the 34th anniversary is called, but most sources indicate that once you get past the 30th anniversary, they quit naming each individual year and only bother with every 5th year. (I'm guessing that men came up with this system.) It took additional research to determine that most experts have designated the 34th anniversary as plutonium.

Three Mile Island wasn't a practical destination, so I didn't try to "theme" the trip. Instead, I arranged for three nights in Morro Bay, California. Why Morro Bay?
1. The last time Sue and I had been there was sometime in the first decade of our marriage. The section of my brain that houses that decade's files is in poor repair, so for all intents and purposes, we had never been there.
2. As readers of previous journals know, we've made past trips to Monument Valley, the Grand Canyon, Mt. Rushmore, and Devil's Tower, so Morro Bay fell right in line with our definition of picturesque: big rocks.
3. Mapquest clocked it as a manageable 3 hour drive from Santa Clarita. Using the Thornton Road Trip Conversion Table, which factors in roadside distractions and the ratio of average hourly beverage consumption to available restrooms, we calculated we could get there by dusk if we left before breakfast.
4. It looked like the kind of place where we could spend some time relaxing without feeling like we were missing something.

DAY ONE:

We left our home on the east side of the Santa Clarita Valley around 9 am, and in no time at all we were at a McDonald's on the west side of the Santa Clarita Valley. Whenever the opportunity presents itself, Sue likes to start the day with a cup of McDonald's decaf coffee... she's convinced it's made from the finest premium coffee beans grown and only available to the seventy billion McDonald's outlets that populate our globe. Sue's dedication to the Mickey Dee's brew is unassailable, though other brands have tried to woo her away. Who can forget the ill-conceived and quickly scrubbed promotion featuring Starskey McStarbuck, the caffeinated clown?

I stuck with my usual large Diet Coke, which gave me the opportunity to check out the restrooms at the Ventura Carls Jr about 40 miles down the road. While there, I picked up a batch of their fried burritos, which are sort of the jawbreakers of Mexican cuisine. I wisely purchased a large Diet Coke to wash them down, and that prompted an unscheduled tour of the restroom at the Wal-Mart in San Luis Obispo. While there, we took advantage of the great price on a case of Diet Dr. Pepper in the 12 oz. cans, so we could stock the hotel room refrigerator.

Honest, I didn't break into the stock of Diet Dr. Pepper for the remainder of the drive. Nevertheless, when we arrived in Morro Bay, it seemed prudent to locate another restroom, and since it was still a little too early to check into our room, we found the local McDonald's. There we made two wonderful discoveries.

Sue is fond of the McDonald's Snack Wraps, which were basically formulated by McDonald's crack R&D team to masquerade as a healthy alternative to the burgers, fries, and nuggets that everyone in their right minds goes to McDonald's to eat. Perhaps they thought that health-conscious adults wouldn't feel as guilty bringing their kids to a McDonald's if there was the possibility of ordering them something a little less artery-clogging than a Happy Meal. If so, it was a miscalculation; I've never seen a kid eating a Snack Wrap at McDonald's. They're not fooled by those apples sliced like french fries, either.

Instead, Snack Wraps appeal to folks like Sue who wisely watch their fat intake and like smaller portions, since they're basically a small tortilla wrapped around some grilled chicken strips accompanied by lettuce and some sauce. Until now.

On the Morro Bay McDonald's menu was a new offering: the Mac Snack Wrap. That's right: the geniuses at McDonald' s managed to overcome their better instincts and come up with a snack wrap that substitutes the halfway healthy stuffing of the chicken Snack Wrap with hamburger, cheese, and secret sauce. It's basically a Big Mac, hold the "Big". It instantly became Sue's favorite McDonald's menu item, if you don't count their coffee.

But wait! There's more! Sue might be a pushover, but the powers-that-fry at McDonald's knew they weren't going to win me over with the Little Big Mac. So they played their ace-in-the-hole. First, they were selling all drink sizes at $1.00, so I was spared using a small-size cup and making numerous refill trips to the beverage bar in order to take advantage of the price break. And, more importantly, the beverage bar offered Diet Dr. Pepper on tap.

As you've gathered, I believe Diet Dr. Pepper is the ambrosia of diet soft drinks, and I drink enough out of cans and plastic bottles annually to guarantee that the Doctor will be in business for years to come. But as much as I love the off-the-shelf version, Diet Dr. Pepper dispensed from a fountain brings me close to swooning. Surprisingly, it's offered at none of your finer restaurants, and very rarely at the major fast-food chains. Seeing it at a McDonald's and entertaining the possibility that it might soon be available at a chain where every outlet is within eyesight of another one... well, let's just say that I pressed the straw I used that day into my scrap book.

That cinched it. It couldn't get any better than this. Just the fact that we had two more days access to Mac Snack Wraps and free-flowing Diet Dr. Pepper before returning to a dry county made the trip a success. 

To kill some more time before checking into our room, we took a drive out to Morro Rock.

Morro Bay is an active fishing village and offers plenty for visitors, but even if there wasn't a local McDonald's with fresh Diet Dr. Pepper, people would still come to see The Rock:

To the right at the base, if you squint, there's a building there that adds some scale and gives you an idea of the size of this lump of stone sitting out in the bay. At any scenic lookout point in Morro Bay, there's a poster or plaque providing the origins of this rock, but I never saw anybody reading it. No one really thinks there's a fascinating story behind a big hunk of rock like this... they know it wasn't airlifted into the bay by the Army Corps of Engineers, and what they're going to read will have words like "volcanic" and "upheaval" and "eons", and only tell them what they already knew: big rocks like this come out of the ground, and they're cool to look at.

There's a stretch of land leading from the shore to the rock that also marks the north end of the bay, so we were able to drive out to a parking area right at the base of the rock, where I was able to point my camera straight up and take more mineral-themed pictures that I won't subject you to.

The public's not allowed to actually set foot on Morro Rock, ostensibly because it's a protected sanctuary for the peregrine falcon. But really, it's to protect visitors from what would be a steady hailstorm of would-be rock-conquerors, and to spare the city from cranking out coroner's reports with cause of death listed as "because it's there."

There's also a rocky spit jutting out to the left of the rock that serves as a breakwater to the bay:

It's look like an exciting place to explore, but the spoilsport authorities don't allow the public out there either. Obviously, that didn't stop the guys in this picture. They must not have seen this sign:

The sign's not really clear on what the danger is, but it's obvious by its condition that if the rocks don't get you, the birds will.

After spending some time discussing how great God is at making rocks, Sue and I decided to see if we could check into our hotel room.

I had made reservations at the Embarcadero Inn, located on Embarcadero, the street that runs right along the waterfront. I figured if the hotel had a street named after it, it must be pretty good, and the pictures on the website seemed to promise what I was looking for in anniversary-getaway lodgings: a view of the bay from the room balcony, a wireless network, and enough space to scatter all my junk, just like I do at home. Extra bonuses were a fireplace and a DVD player. I know, I know... I'm an incurable romantic, but with all the advances in medicine these days, who knows? There might be a cure just around the corner.

When we checked in, we were given actual metal room keys instead of key cards, making me wonder for a minute there might be other features that were less than cutting-edge. I didn't want to have to haul water to the room or crank-start the TV. But the elevator to our 3rd floor room seemed okay (it didn't have a guy in a fez operating a lever). In fact, we had to use our room key to gain access to the elevator, which made us feel like we were going to the penthouse.

And the room was great. The view straight out from the balcony wasn't bad....

Looking to the right, the view was partially obstructed, since we were across the street from the Estero Inn....

... but we could still see the rock, and the sun went down right behind it every evening. Or so I'm told. Sunset is usually a little bit past our summer bedtime. We tried to catch the sunset on the first night, but our retinas were pretty much scalded before the sun hit the top of the rock.

Looking at the picture, some of you might wonder why I didn't just book the Estero Inn. I had considered it when hotel-shopping, but it was a bit more pricey, and there was no guarantee that I wouldn't get one of the balconies looking down the street instead of out at the rock. Plus the name had a hormonal vibe that I just wasn't comfortable with.

Although McDonald's was now a constant temptation, we stuck with our original plan to try the local seafood restaurants for dinner each night. So once we settled in, we made our way back to a place we'd driven past on our way to Morro Rock: The Great American Fish Company. It was Sue's first choice because it sounded like it covered all the bases: it was great. It was American. It had fish.

I was a bit dubious. The name made it sound more like a manufacturing facility to me. I imagined conveyor belts of fish leading out to the holds on ships that would eventually transport the fish out to sea, where they would be released to be caught by the local fisherman and brought back to the bay to be sold to restaurants with more fanciful names.

As has been her habit for 34 years, Sue turned out to be right. It was a nice restaurant with a view of the harbor. While we sat at our table, we saw seals and sea otters go by. Curiously, neither was on the menu.

Sue had the sea bass; I had the swordfish. At least I think I did. There's really no way for me to know for sure, since one piece of fish usually looks like another, regardless of species. I ordered it because I thought it would be cool when the waiter brought out the extra-long plate to accommodate the sword, but I was disappointed. So were the folks who ordered the octopus. But the food was delicious, if that's the kind of thing you look for in a restaurant.

When we got back to the room, I read through the binder that described the hotel's amenities and services. It asked that we respect the hours of 10 pm through 8 am as "quiet time", and that made Sue consider a quick trip to the local Rite-Aid for some Breathe-Right strips, but I promised to keep my snoring directed into my pillow.

Not that it would have mattered. At 10 o'clock sharp, the couple in the room next to us started having a high-volume, heart-to-heart conversation, using the same pet names and playful banter bandied between rival gang members. Some of the same weapons might have been used also... it sounded like some of the furniture was being moved around, or maybe thrown. On reflection, I'm thinking that they weren't there to celebrate their anniversary.

But the racket was only a slight interruption to our sleep. After all, we've been married for 34 years, and if we can get used to each other, we can adapt to anything. So after noting the noise, we settled back in and got a good night's sleep.

DAY TWO:

The next morning, as we left the room, I noticed the "Do Not Disturb" sign hanging from the doorknob of the room next door.  Somehow it seemed an unfair request, but I didn't want to dwell on it... sorting out  the difference between irony, sardonic wit, and your basic double standard always gives me a headache.

We took advantage of the hotel's continental breakfast, which was conveniently located (for us, anyway) a few doors down on the same floor. While there, we struck up a conversation with a couple from Arizona who had wisely left that state for the summer to avoid the shrapnel from exploding thermometers that happens every year about this time. They had children living in central California, so they were familiar with the area, and they suggested we take a drive up toward San Simeon, where elephant seals hang out at the beach.

We decided to check that out, but first we took a stroll down Embarcadero to get a closer look at the town.

We saw a lot of restaurants and souvenir shops and artsy-craftsy type places. Candy shops seemed popular also, with an emphasis on taffy, so I imagine there's plenty of dentist's offices in town, probably with the same proprietors.

There were also plenty of places offering rentals of small craft like kayaks and tiny rowboats with sails attached, or those things that look like surfboards, but you stand on the them and paddle around with an oar. I figured there was probably an outpatient mental institution nearby that generated a market for this kind of thing. I sure wasn't interested in getting into a vessel that would capsize every time I put out my arm to signal a port turn.

We saw a place offering whale-watching excursions, and that was something we'd never done, so we checked it out. There were none leaving this day (Wednesday) but there was one the next day at 9 am, and 19 out of the 24 available spots were already taken, so we booked it.

The whale-tour guy advised that it's considerably cooler on the open sea, so we should dress as if we were going skiing. I figured he didn't mean water-skiing, but since I've never done any skiing, I had no idea what was fashionable, other than to avoid wearing dark knee-high socks with your sneakers. Dressing me is Sue's department, and she decided that we needed to pick up a couple of light jackets or sweatshirts to go over the light jackets we already had. This is called "layering", because you're piling added unexpected expenses onto your vacation budget.

For those of you who've stumbled onto my Alaskan cruise journal, you'll know that we bought huge white heavy-duty industrial-grade Eskimo-approved winter coats for that trip to protect us from the Frigidaire winds. Those coats served their purpose, but we've never worn them since... we haven't been anyplace where we anticipated that kind of climate, and being as they weigh about as much as a Kevlar jump-suit, they're not the kind of coats you routinely pack. At first I slapped my forehead that we didn't bring them along for this trip, but then realized they were just too bulky to be practical for whale-watching, and with an active fishing colony close by,  we wouldn't want to take the risk of being mistaken for great whites on the open sea.

After strolling through the rest of town, we got back in the car and made our way up the coast.  About 5 miles past San Simeon, we saw the sign indicating the turnout for the elephant seal beach. There was plenty of space for parked cars, and plenty of parked cars there, so we were able to follow our fellow elephant seal enthusiasts to the fenced off lookout point.

At first glance I thought I was looking at a beach full of rocks...

...but that impression only lasted a few seconds, until I noticed that some of them were moving, and making noises that sounded like they were chugging two-liters of Coke.

I took a few pictures, but these two are most indicative of the non-basking variety:

They seemed to enjoy yelling at each other a lot, which made me think that maybe our hotel neighbors had made the trip a day earlier and felt inspired.

Sue and I watched the seals for quite some time. There's something inexplicably appealing about being able to watch animals hanging out in their natural habitat who are totally aware of your presence and aren't either running away or trying to eat you. We would have stayed longer, but there were only chemical toilets at the turnout with a long line of seals waiting their turn. So we drove back about 5 miles to the visitor center for the Hearst Castle to use the facilities.

The Castle sits up on top of a hill set about 5 miles from the main highway; luckily the visitor center is at the beginning of that 5 mile drive, and serves as the depot for the buses that ferry the tourists to the mansion. Many years ago, not too long after we were married, Sue and I had visited and taken the Hearst Castle tour, and we didn't have a great desire to relive the experience. I realize it's kind of historical, and probably contains some significant works or art and antique furnishings, but as a general rule, conspicuous consumption isn't as much fun to watch as it is to do. I don't begrudge the Hearsts their mansion. It was probably tough amusing oneself up there on the hill at San Simeon in the 20's and 30's. Watching elephant seals through a telescope could get old quickly, and it was probably a lot more diverting ordering contractors around and giving Orson Welles ideas for a movie.

After taking advantage of the Hearst hospitality, we started the drive back to Morro Bay, but we made a slight detour. There was no way we could visit Morro Bay without checking out the cutting-edge wineries and healing hot springs of nearby Paso Robles---

Just kidding... we just wanted to find a department store where we could pick up a couple of sweatshirts for the whale-watching trip, and we figured the drive would be fun. It didn't take us long to find a Big 5 that carried hoodies. They were sorted into sections labeled S, M, L and Whale. I let Sue pick out mine. Why hurt my own feelings?

A 35 mile drive southwest got us back in Morro Bay, and before dinner, we decided to go back out to Morro Rock and check out the beach on its east side. The view of the rock wasn't much different, what was impressive was what was on the beach. Take this:

and this:

... and multiply by a thousand. As I looked at the rocks I was approaching, I realized they were looking back at me... a multitude of beady little eyes, all waiting for something edible to hit the ground. It became even more unnerving as I got closer, and hordes of the little vermin came out to greet me. Obviously, they had no fear of man... one came up and nibbled at the toe of my sneaker.

As more emerged from the rocks, I was beginning to feel a bit like Ernest Borgnine in Willard, so we decided to head back to town before somebody yelled "Tear 'em up!" and Sue and I became winter provisions. I always wondered what picked those skeletons clean at Disneyland's "Pirates of the Caribbean" ride. Now I knew: sand squirrels.

 We decided to return to the hotel for a bit before dinner. We stopped by the lobby to see if there were any other tourist-type materials there (brochures, 2-for-1 coupons, maps to the local Mystery Spot). As we passed the elevator outside the lobby, we noticed a respectable-looking older lady who appeared to be waiting for the elevator to arrive. We didn't find anything in the lobby, and the lady was gone when we returned to the elevator, so we used our key to call it down.

We got in the elevator, and just before the doors closed, the lady appeared from around the corner and ducked into the elevator with us. I shrewdly deduced that she didn't have her hotel key and had to wait for someone else to get on the elevator so she could get to her room.

By the time we all got out on the third floor, and she started heading down the hall in the opposite direction, I was beginning to see some logical flaws in my shrewd deduction. If she didn't have a key to get on the elevator, how was she going to get in her room? Well, maybe there was somebody already in her room to let her in. Well then, why didn't she call them from downstairs? Well, maybe she didn't want to bother whoever was up in her room when she could just as easily hitch an elevator ride with another guest.

Or maybe she was a geriatric cat burglar preparing to jimmy the locks of some vacant rooms and abscond with some valuables unless Sherlock Thornton put a stop to her shenanigans. So I turned around to see where she was headed.

Now that, for the first time, I could see her walk more than a couple of feet, it was clear that she had cleaned the lobby out of all the 2-for-1 cocktail coupons and had added considerably to her tiny umbrella collection. She was walking down the hallway like it was the suspension bridge on Tom Sawyer's Island. I knew that, if she wasn't a guest, she was in no condition to jimmy any locks; and if she was a guest, with the progress she was making down the hallway, she'd sober up by the time she found her room, so we watched her bump into the wall a couple of more times, then proceeded to our room.

The "Do Not Disturb" sign was still on the doorknob next door, so I figured either our neighbors had reached a  reconciliation or the local authorities had run out of yellow crime scene tape.

We went out to dinner at a place called The Galley. When we had checked into the hotel, I had asked the clerk for dining recommendations. Of course, he recommended the local Mac Snack Wraps, accompanied with a carafe of Diet Dr. Pepper, but I told him that ship had already sailed, and that's when he said a lot of guests liked The Galley. We didn't immediately spot it on our first day in town, so we decided to track it down and try it today.

Armed with the actual address this time, we found it with no problem. Being on the waterfront and sharing a building with other businesses,  and with no golden arches or painted footprints on the sidewalk saying "this way to The Galley", it wasn't easily visible from the street. Like The Great American Fish Company, it had a nice view of the water from almost every table, and you got used to the seagulls smacking against the window.

I can't remember what we ordered exactly, but I know it had gills instead of hooves. The menu advised that The Galley preferred to prepare and serve all its fresh seafood "naked". That  made me a bit apprehensive about meeting our waiter, and about the local health ordinances that allowed such a thing, but Sue read the fine print, and assured me the term referred to the culinary philosophy of serving the fish unseasoned with sauces on the side. I guess it's paying respect to the fish that fell in battle.

It was good, but we discovered that we prefer our fish fully-clothed. The philosophy of unsullied seafood might be admirable, but it doesn't take the place of some spices and a mesquite grill.

The room next door still had the "Do Not Disturb" sign posted when we returned. It was obvious that these folks had checked in to take advantage of the full line of cable  TV programming offered by the hotel. Maybe they were fighting over the remote the previous night.

If so, the matter still wasn't settled, because at almost 10 pm sharp, they started fighting again. It made me sad to think that a couple would really rent a place to fight, so I tried to come up with alternate scenarios. The World Cup was in progress, so maybe, I though, they were just backing different teams and getting a bit over-zealous with the rivalry. I've heard that such mixed marriages aren't tolerated in some parts of Europe. But this was idle speculation... I really couldn't make out the exact words they were saying except for the more loudly punctuated curse words. I tried putting a can of Diet Dr. Pepper up to the wall and then putting my ear against it, but the can was still half-full and by the time I cleaned up the mess, I was ready to go to sleep.

I know some of you would have complained, either to the couple or to the hotel manager. But, although it was depressing, it wasn't like I couldn't get to sleep, and when two people are having this much trouble with their own relationship, why add the pressure of forging a new one with me or the hotel manager? Besides, I'm not really the complaining kind, especially against people I'm terrified of.

DAY THREE:

Whale watching day! Of, if you're a whale, paparazzi day!

Sue and I are early risers, so we were up in plenty of time to have a bit of breakfast and still be down to the dock over a half-hour early. We wanted front-row seats, both for the view and so we wouldn't be down-wind of any motion-sickness attacks.

While waiting at the dock, we could see a more-elevated dock just a couple of doors down, with what looked like guys checking in ice chests of fish. Underneath this dock was what I thought was a rock sticking out of the water, until it started quoting Harpo Marx dialog:

So I took a closer look.

Obviously, experience had taught this guy to hang out here for easy meals, sort of like finding the places in New York where things fall out of trucks. I know the picture above just looks like a blow-up of the previous one, but it's not... it was taken a couple of minutes later. This seal never moved. He looked just like this later that day, and I'm betting I could run back up to Morro Bay today and take this same picture. I could almost admire his tenacity if I wasn't imagining the barnacled nightmare of his below-the-surface regions.

After watching this marine equivalent of the Queen's Guard for a while, I turned around and got a picture of the catamaran we'd be taking.

As you can see, someone's basically bolted some park benches onto a platform, then put the whole thing on a couple of pontoons and labeled it so everyone will know that you're not in the bleachers for a deep-sea water polo match. It's designed to attract whales, who are always desperate for a laugh. The name of the vessel made me nervous. Everyone knows that "Dos Osos" is Italian for "those so-and-so's!", but all I could see was a couple of SOS's.

As we had hoped, once we were piped on board, Sue and I were able to get one of the front benches, along with another couple that looked to be about our age. We were told the tour was booked to capacity, so everyone on board was scrunching together to make room for later arrivals, but after a few minutes our captain announced that seven people had cancelled (probably after seeing they had booked a ride on an air foil). So we spread out a bit. The couple sharing the bench with us split up; the woman moved to the back bench while the guy stayed where he was next to Sue. I thought this seemed sort of funny, but I was also grateful Sue hadn't thought of it first, so I shrugged it off until we were underway.

That's when we learned that the gentleman seated next to Sue was named Charles, and it quickly became obvious why his companion had opted for a different bench. As soon as we started heading out of the harbor, Charles exclaimed, "This is going to be a great trip!"

I've warned Sue about the danger of striking up new acquaintances (she's still paying for the ill-advised decision to get to know me), but she's never learned to be anything but pleasant to people around her, so she said, "Yes, it should be a lot of fun."

From there, Charles took the wheel, conversation-wise. He was a combination of Cliff Clavin from Cheers and Rainman (Dustin Hoffman, not Tom Cruise). He let us know that he was a retired park ranger that served in the greater central California area and then launched into a running commentary about... well, about almost everything.

A random snippet ran something like this:

"I'm really looking forward to seeing some whales there's lot of animal life to see around here the birds are very important they interact with the fish and the seals and the otters the birds have very sharp eyes they can spot the fish from way up in the air there's different seals to see around here some of them have ear holes and others have ear flaps they can hear pretty good the birds rely more on their eyes we have our eyes that we see with, our nose that we smell with and our mouth that we taste with birds have eyes that they see with and nose holes that they smell with but they got no upper lip just a bill seals have lips look for the whale's spout that's how you spot them they breath air so they have to come up to exhale they're air-breathing mammals we might see some sharks they're not mammals they're fish you want to stay away from their teeth I used to be a ranger all through this area it was great I loved it your husband doesn't talk very much does he be sure to look for a spout or a fin..."

And so forth.

I know the rule of the sea is women and children first, but when it came to Charles, I had already jumped ship, and Sue was on her own. At one point, Charles' companion yelled from her back-row bench, "Charles! Give the lady a break! You're overloading her!" but that didn't seem to discourage him, and she made no more attempts to rein him in... she probably recognized the  expression of resignation on Sue's face.

 We managed to spot some blue whales, but I didn't take any pictures. It's really tough to get the camera lens to settle on much of anything when you're moving around like a Water Wiggle on the open sea. And let's face it: while it's really fun seeing the largest animal on earth swimming around out there, all you're seeing is glimpses of its topside and tail. The fun is being there, and you can miss a lot of it if you're trying to catch it in the camera.

Once we actually started spotting the whales, Charles got distracted, so Sue was able to enjoy it, too.  The waters were a bit rough and there was definitely a rollercoaster ambiance to the trip that hit a couple of people pretty hard. Unless there were whales directly underneath the rail they were leaning over, I don't think they saw anything. Sue and I have been spared a susceptibility to motion-sickness, so this was a good opportunity to experience it vicariously.

There were no bathrooms (or "cabezas") on the good ship Dos Osos, but the guide advised that there was a port-a-potty (or "cabeza pequeno") if one was needed. But you've seen the picture of the catamaran: it's not like there was a stall or shower curtain set-up on board. Sue was aware of the sanitation limitations and had taken precautions before boarding to make darn sure she wouldn't be put in the position (so to speak) of using the port-a-potty during the trip. Personally, I knew it would never happen; if Sue ever reached that point, she'd tie the anchor around her feet and jump overboard rather than face the alternative. So I kept a close eye on her in between whale spottings.

All in all and Charles notwithstanding, it was a great trip. On the way back we went by a buoy loaded with seals:

It didn't seem like the most comfortable place to hang out. I think there's probably some form of seal public transit that stops by there.

As advertised, the whale-watching tour took about 3 hours

(Quick aside: in an age where 2 year olds can sing the theme to Gilligan's Island, why would any outfit offering to take tourists out on the water advertise a 3 hour tour? Call it a "180 minute tour" or a "back by lunch" tour... anything to keep from triggering a potential customer's subconscious into considering the possibility of being stranded for 3 seasons with a bunch of one-dimensional strangers. Advertising a 3 hour tour is kind of like having flight attendants hand out DVDs of LOST before taking off.)

We were back by noon, and decided to have a seafood lunch. I got to pick that day, so we went to the Lil Shack, which is basically a shack located in the parking lot of The Great American Fish Company that serves fish and chips from a walk-up window. After having "naked" fish and fine seafood the previous nights, it was great to get back to the classics: an unidentified species of fish, coated in batter, fried up and served in a bed of french fries nestled in a paper-lined plastic basket. For me, it was the best meal of the trip, and the best fish and chips I've ever had. Then again, every other place at which I've ever ordered fish and chips, the counter person has asked "Do you want fries with that?"

We spent some more time looking at the shops. We stopped by the main souvenir shop in town, but we didn't feel any need to pick up a pen, a pocketknife, a pillow, or a t-shirt with "Morro Bay" printed on it. The shop had a whole section devoted to the classic gag items: whoopee cushions, joy buzzers, squirting lapel flowers, fake vomit, rolling eyeballs, etc. I'm not quite sure why someone would bring back a whoopee cushion as a memento of their stay at Morro Bay, but then again, I'm not an unattended six-year-old with vacation money burning a hole in my pocket. I'm 56 and the fake vomit was a much better deal.

Then we took a drive southward toward the estuary part of the bay. Sue had read about a nature walk through an "Elfin Forest". It all sounded a bit too Worlds of Warcraft for me, but if she wanted to check it out, I supposed I could endure running across some role-players in green tights.

The entrance to the trail was at the end of a residential cul-de-sac. It was one of those self-guided boardwalk trails, with periodic informational signs along the loop. For some reason, the signs wanted me to imagine experiencing this region as a small Chumash Indian girl from hundreds of years ago. I'm not sure how changing my ethnicity and gender helped me appreciate it more, and Sue made me stop mincing my walk after the first 50 yards of the trail, so I experienced most of Elfin Forest as an old fat contemporary white guy.

Here's a couple of pictures just to give you an idea:

The first is an overview of the area... you can see Morro Rock way off in the distance. The second is showing how the boardwalk takes you into the Elfin Forest. No pointy-eared guys or pots of gold here; it's called the Elfin Forest because of the dwarf oaks that populate the area. There's also lots of poison oak, but as long as you've got your healing potion or have accumulated enough health points, you don't have to worry.

When we were done, we were still full from the best fish and chips in the world, so we stopped at the local Foster's Freeze for dessert, where I had the house special:  the "Oxymoron" which is basically a Diet Dr. Pepper ice cream float. Then we went back to the room, where we read and relaxed for the remainder of the day.

The neighbors fought again that night, but by now, I wouldn't have been able to sleep if  I hadn't heard from them.

DAY FOUR:

It was time to check out. We got all our things packed up and out to the car, then I stopped by the lobby to turn in the keys. The hotel clerk asked how our stay was, and I mentioned the noisy neighbors. The clerk turned pale and I asked her what was wrong. She said, "That room's vacant. We closed it up years ago. No guests have stayed in that room since the Fergusons. They fought; Mr. Ferguson shot Mrs. Ferguson, then killed himself."

No, not really, but I wanted to give this journal a dramatic ending.  Reality's a lot more boring: we checked out and had a nice drive back to the land where most Diet Dr. Pepper comes from a bottle or a can.

Since it was a trip celebrating our 34th anniversary, I should say something profound and/or mushy about my wife and our life together so far. But it's tough to say anything that doesn't do a disservice to the way I feel. Because we work together, Sue and I spend very little time apart, yet we haven't yet ended up like the Fergusons. I could say that we are eerily and perfectly suited for each other, and that since I believe in God rather than coincidence, I've got to thank Him for Susan Joy Thornton, the second biggest blessing in my life.

But I won't say anything corny like that. Instead, I'll offer the following picture, taken while Sue was sitting on the hotel room balcony, reading. The sun was getting lower in the sky, and she hadn't brought anything to shade her eyes. So she asked if she could borrow my hat.

This is a picture of the only woman in the world that would be willing to put on that hat while sitting in a spot visible from the street. Is there any doubt that she was made for me?

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